Monday, August 24, 2020

First Day of the Semester

 Every semester is a new beginning!

Every semester is a chance to meet knew peers and professors, and these meetings can be very important for your professional future.  First impressions are crucial and I have a few tips about it.


When you meet new people in your classes, don't forget to get a phone number, email, or a full name to find them on Facebook to be able to message.  It's important to keep connected to those you meet, you never know when you will need their help, or when they will need yours.

I hope these tips help you to easy into meeting new people!
See y'all soon, again!
-Ms Curly Texan

Tuesday, August 18, 2020

A Texas Love: Cotton Fields

A Special Post: A Texas Love

"For behold the field is white already to harvest."
Doctrine and Covenants 4:4

Most of Texas does not receive any snow, or only does every hundred years or so, during winter, but another wondrous white beauty happens in August; harvest time for cotton.

I live in a small town in South Texas and it is surrounded by crop fields.  During August, the cotton fields turn white and are harvested.  If you have seen cotton grow, it starts as a small green shrub-like crop, then the buds grow in.
The bud turn brown and it breaks open to reveal a soft white cotton bloom.

When you drive by the cotton fields at 80 mph, it looks the fields are covered in snow.
It's a beautiful sight.

I’ve made a wreath from faux cotton stalks I bought at Dollar Tree in 2019.
I place it on our door during August; the time the cotton fields are white and already to harvest. 

Find beauty all around.  God gives with both hands.
See y'all soon!
-Ms Curly Texan

Monday, August 17, 2020

A Relaxing Type of Mask

Welcome everyone!  
During this time when masks are required, take some time to wear a different kind of mask.

Facial masks are a great way to de-stress, and there are so many out there to try; bubbles, peels, sheets, and home-made ones, but how do you pick the right one for you?  Well, you just need to understand what each kind of mask exactly does.

Bubble Masks are the newest trend in States when it comes to facial masks, but what's the big deal about it?  I'll tell ya!  These masks usual start of in a liquid form and once it's applied to your face, the oils in your skin will cause it to turn into what looks like soft foam.  This foam, or bubbles, gets into the pores of your face by naturally using the oxygen inside it.
Bubble masks can work for any skin type, but if you have very dry skin be sure to follow it up with a moisturizing sheet mask.



Moisturizing sheet masks are something you could use everyday, just as long as you are also washing your face everyday.  Never put a moisture sheet mask on dirty skin!  All that will do is help the dried dust of the surface of your face become moist and seep into your pores.  Those with oily skin may think a moisturizing sheet mask is the opposite of what you need, but that's not true!  You just need to find the right kind of sheet mask.  Some of them are for just moisturizing, but there are also ones with aloe and cucumber which are wonderful natural agents which help reduce swelling and redness.  Sometimes I put an aloe sheet mask in the fridge for half an hour before I use it to help the process even more.

Peeling masks are my favorite of all beauty masks!  Maybe because they were the first beauty masks I've used, or maybe because they are what help me look ten years younger than I am. (That's not an exaggeration.  People are always surprised how old I am by my looks.)  If you use them too often, they can damage your skin, or if you use the very strong ones and you have sensitive skin, so pay attention to which ones you use an how often.  These work in a very simple way; smooth onto your face, when it dries, it holds onto the ickiness inside your pores, and when you pull off the mask, out comes the ickiness!

Now finally, homemade face masks.  These are usually meant to moisturize and are made with things you often have in your kitchen already.  I've made an oatmeal mask, which I have down below, but there are many to find online.  I plan to try different ones in the future and I will tell you all about them as I use them.
This oatmeal mask moisturized my skin, and I noticed it also temporarily tightened it.  My skin was also brightened, which I love when that happens, I look like a just had a day at the beach; shiny and new!  I know the sun doesn't normally do that, but for me it still does.  Talk to me in another five years...probably not so much.


Be sure to spend some time taking care of your skin, and have fun while doing it!
See y'all soon!
-Ms Curly Texan

Thursday, August 6, 2020

Self Care Kit

Welcome y'all!  Today, I wanna talk about self care.

A goal of mine is to take one day out of every week to focus on mental clarity; clear mind, happy mind.
I have quite recently looked into creating a Self Care Kit for myself to help me achieve this.

What is a Self Care Kit?
A Self Care Kit is a box, or basket, with supplies which help you to become relaxed, centered, to help you understand yourself better, or to just plain give you a moment to breath.  It's important we take time to pull ourselves from the world to be able to refocus and understand our situations, our wants, our needs, and our abilities.



10 Items for Your Self Care Kit:

Weighted Blanket
Specifically, lap size, or child sized.  Weighted blankets have been shown to help enhance sleep and reduce stress, and when you use a lap size, you have your arms free for what comes next.

Books
The type of books in your kit are all up to what makes you happy.  I like novels, but I also like little books about de-cluttering or about organizing.  They make me happy and become excited.  For some, books about de-cluttering only make one feel more cluttered in their mind, but for me, I enjoy those things.

Journal
Nothing fancy, just a blank notebook to put your thoughts.  You can keep fun pens, markers, and stickers with your journal, or just a single simple pen; it's up to you.  This journal should help you destress, not make you feel obligated to be creative when it's not really your thing.  For some, being creative opens the mind and frees them, but if this is not you, then don't worry about markers and stickers, but don't forego the journal.  I love to journal with markers and colored pencils, but sometimes I just write, and every now and then, it's just a list of things.  Journal how you want.  Heard of the Wreak this Journal journals?  I've been holding out on buying one, waiting to be gifted one.  Until then, I stick with my everyday ones; a simple dotted composition book.

Music
Now, this is the only reason to have anything electronic in your kit.  Nowadays, our music is on our phones, not in it's own little box, or big box, so using your phone in this instance is a check.  When you listen to your music, lay back and breath.  The music is your choice.  Find what soothes you.  Remember Squishy's mother in Monster's University?  She totally mellowed out to her heavy metal jams and I completely understand that; sometimes you play music, not to listen to it, but to feel the pulsing of the screaming guitar ripple through your head to relieve you of your migraine.  I know I'm not the only one out there who does this.  Most of the time, I just want to chill out with some sweet 80's ballad, but sometimes I need the shred of the guitar tremble through me.  As I said, the music that soothes you is the choice to make, and be sure to find the right kind of headphones for yourself.

Sheet Masks
Sheet masks can be aroma-therapeutic and can lessen swelling; it always surprises me how little my sinuses need to swell to make me feel off.  There are all kinds of sheet masks out there, with all types of benefits.  I suggest buying a bulk of them to see which you like.

Nail Polish
Taking a moment to change something, is as simple as making a few strokes across your finger nails.  Change can be hard to take, but when we stop, clean off our nails, and apply a fresh new coat of color, or even a simple french tip, we see change can be beautiful and beneficial.  It's not always easy to get the look you want, or to "stay inside the lines," but with practice, it will become easier to make these changes, and perhaps help you understand and/or accept other changes.
(My favorites are Sally Hansen Insta-dri.)

Tea
I only drink herbal teas.  You can buy them at the store or online, or make them yourself, and they have different benefits.  Add honey, a sprinkle of sweetener, or drink it straight, it's all on your taste.  You may say you don't like tea, but there are so many out there to try, I'm sure there is one to your liking.  I've even had one that tastes just like a glazed lemon cake, once I added a cube of sugar.  Your tea can be calming or help you wake up, both should be in your kit because you don't know which you'll need when.

Photos
Photos of happy moments or cards with funny sayings can bring a smile to your face.  When you smile, endorphins are released; the chemicals in your mind swirl and let you know you're happy.  It could be a meme that always gets you, or a print of a painting that makes you sigh in joy, it's up to you.

Candles
I have become a fan of wood wick candles.  I found one at Walgreens, of all places, when I had never used one before.  When I brought it home, I set it on my dresser and lit it.  I instantly fell in love; the wood crackles.  It crackles like a fire place filled with burning wood, like a camp fire.  I love it.  I like earthy smells, like this Palo Santo and Patchouli one, and with the added sound of a crackling fire, oh!  It just completes it.

Essential Oils or Facial Mists
I have a cactus facial spray by Pearlessence that I can no longer find, but Amazon has others of the same brand, which are also nice.  I sometimes spray my face to just breath in new air.  I have asthma, and chemical smells are my biggest trigger, so I prefer subtle scents and these facial sprays hit the mark.  I use just about one essential oil, and it's not entirely an oil at that, but I know they are beneficial because I've seen the results.  A drop or two of lavender into distilled water to spray on your pillow, or your neck, can be just what you need.

I hope this all helps y'all to create your own self care kit, and I hope it betters your lives.
Thank y'all for coming!  See y'all soon!
-Ms Curly Texan

Friday, July 31, 2020

What's in My Backpack: University Edition

Welcome y'all!  Glad to see ya!

I am thirty-two and I am an undergrad student at our local university, Texas A&M University Kingsville.  I love school, I truly do!  August is my favorite time of the year, well probably second favorite, but I do absolutely love the start of school.
I've said before, August is my New Year.  It's when the school year is about to begin and when all my favorite things come out onto the shelves; school supplies, warm clothes, rich golden tones, pumpkin spice everything, and a million different new mugs to choose from!

I returned to university Spring 2019 and started a new major.  I have about two years left to go before graduating and I plan to continue on to a masters degree.  I think I have my backpack well stocked and I hope it helps you understand what you need for your courses.
  1. Rolling Backpack--I have asthma and I'm overweight, which now adds to my asthma.  My first semester back to university, I had a regular backpack, but in spring, when all the cut grass is flying and pollen just loves to get right in your face, you sometimes just need to breath better!  Taking the weight off my shoulders helped my asthma for sure.  This one is great, only wish it had a separate pocket for the laptop so there would also be a pocket for just my folders and books.
  2. Folders with Pockets--One for each course plus one extra.  This is where you will keep your printed syllabus, handed notes or worksheets, and returned work for each one of your courses.  The extra folder is for general university information.  This is where you should keep a printed copy of your schedule, a few Blue Books, a few scantrons, a copy of your degree plan(s), and a small map of your school.  I also have a sheet of collegiate stickers in my extra folder.  If you attend orientation (which most universities require this) then you may receive a folder from your university with their name on it.  Use that one as your extra; it will be extra special that way.
  3. Notebooks or Composition Books--One for each course.  I usually use Fivestar single subject spiral notebooks, but I only use about half of the pages, so this semester I decided to purchase composition books.  Still using Mead, because no joking they are always quality, and I chose bright fun colors.  Even if you take notes on your computer, you should still have a notebook or composition book to use.
  4. Pens--I was first turned on to these pens by another Girl Scout leader.  She gave us these pens as a gift and I loved them!  In turn, I ended up buy all of us nice pencil cases for the pens.  When university came around again, I knew they were the pens I'd want to use.  I lent out two of these pens to two different people in two different classes, and both of them asked if they could keep it.  I let them, which is why I buy them on sale and as many as possible.
  5. Pencils--Ticonderoga all the way!  I have a straw dispenser at home and I am slowly filling it to the brim with Ticonderoga pencils.  Oh so wonderful!  Our university has old pencil sharpeners on the walls still, in almost every building, so I don't worry about staying sharp.  I have most of my classes where everyone's degree involves a lot of writing, so the sharpeners have stayed.
  6. Highlighters--I use these for my notes.  I also use them on index cards when I create flash cards.  Use each color for different things, such as: keyword, term, don't forget, and person of importance.  I change it with each class.
  7. Permanent Markers--I always have permanent markers on hand.  Even in my purse.  It's a critical tool for life.
  8. Fold Away Scissors--I have had a couple of versions of scissors, one of which looks like a marker.  I love those the best.
  9. Pencil Case--How else will you hold everything together?  I prefer these styles because I find they take up the least amount of space and protect my implements the best.
  10. Laptop--This is the one I am currently using.  I found it on sale, but I will be replacing it this soon, with a Macbook.  Find a laptop that suits your needs and major.  I am a communication journalism major with a minor in writing and I will be going on to get a masters degree involving film and screenwriting.  I want a Macbook because I find it very user friendly for such things and it will last me for years to come, even into my career.  If you can, find one not too heavy also.
  11. Document Organizer--I use this as my laptop holder.  My backpack doesn't have a special padded spot for a laptop, so I use this.  I also like that it has a handle, so when I want to just take my computer some place, it's easy.
  12. Wireless Mouse--I prefer having a mouse, especially when editing film or scrolling through articles, it just makes things quicker and easier.  In college, anything that makes assignments go easier and quicker is what you want.
  13. USB Flash Drives--Notice that is plural.  I have three flash drives; one for school, one for photos from my phone, and the third for short films I make.  This makes it easier to separate school and home info also.
  14. Tassel USB Charging Cord--The one I have I bought on sale from Walmart.  This is great to have because sometimes you just need to connect your phone to your laptop, or a computer at school, and this makes it quick and easy since it dangle right off your backpack.
  15. Lightning/Micro USB/USB-C Multi USB Charger--The one I have is actually one I received at my university's College Night, where the Art and Science Department had each college set up tables to share what each of them do.  My department, the Art, Communication, and Theater (ACT) department was giving them out.  This is great to have on hand.  You will be doing group projects all the time and you need to be ready for anyone in your group to not be quite as ready as you.  If you have this, you will be able to adapt to anyone's phone whom might be in your group.  Before I had this, we met at a group members apartment and one of us was supposed to supply the audio for our short film, but his computer only had USB-C so we couldn't pull it off his computer.  We ended up having our editor do the background music herself.  This just helps so much.
  16. Phone--Self evident I think.  Popsocket--I've used the twisting pop holders, but they do not last the way Popsockets do. (The one pictured)
  17. Phone Charger--When you're sitting in class you can charge your phone, or use the cord for connecting to your computer.  You know you'll need it.
  18. Power Bank--Because you're not always going to be staying one place.  With my courses, I sometimes have to on "location" to get an interview or shoot a scene or even scout out those locations and a power bank is what I need when I've been using my phone to record the interview or shoot the scene.
  19. Microfiber Screen Cleaning Cloth--I bought both these guys from the Dollar Tree.  I love the Dollar Tree, and why not have cuteness where you can have it.  I use these for my sunglasses, phone, laptop...lots of different screens and lenses.
  20. Collegiate lanyard--You should have some collegiate spirit in your everyday things.  I have so many TAMUK shirts for two reasons, promotionals and Walmart, but I'd rather not wear a t-shirt everyday, so my TAMUK lanyard covers my everyday collegiate spirit.  I got mine from the university bookstore for only $2.19, including the tax.  Mine is a blue knit style and just says "Javelinas."  Hygiene Bag--I got this bag for free, so this is what I use.  I put all my electronics, flash drives, and student ID in here.
  21. Headphones--I just got these.  Call it a birthday gift, but I've been wanting to get noise cancelling headphones for a long time, but I forgot how sensitive I am to certain sounds since my last pregnancy, so I need a little more time to get used to them.  Even so, I think the sound is amazing!
  22. Thermal Food Jar--This is the easiest thermal container to use, but I also have a bigger one with a divider.  Sometimes I use the bigger one, put it in a lunch bag and hook it onto the trolley bar of my backpack.
  23. Thermal Water Bottle--I have about five of these in both straw and chug form.  I have others too; TAL and Hydroflask, in different sizes.  I got rid of all my thermals in the typical water bottle shape.  I found they didn't keep my drink cold for as long as the others do.  I might get a Tervis water bottle this year.  I like that they are dishwasher safe.  (I've been trying to make all our dishes dishwasher safe.)
  24. Umbrella--This is important no matter how often it rains where you attend school.  This can shield the sun too, and could help for shoots.
  25. Stapler--I learned quickly that you need to carry your own stapler with you.  I've had a class where we were put into groups and we took turns decorating a bulletin board with a subject we learned in class.  I've printed up several essays at school and needed to staple the pages together.  Trust me, it's better to have one with you than end up having to beg a secretary or a really mean professor who is very stingy with their stapler.
  26. First Aid and Meds--You can put something together yourself easily.  A few bandages, small tube of antiseptic, and antibiotic cream is all you need for quick fixes.  I carry an inhaler with me at all times, and when I've especially been having problems, I carry an epinephrine pen, also.  I also keep pain killers and cough drops.  I buy the menthol cough drops because they can also help you wake up a little when studying.
  27. Lip Balm--A simple everyday need.  I like this Baby Lips by Maybelline.  It doesn't dry out my lips like some others do and this one specifically has some shimmer to it.
  28. Lotion--Might as well be ready.  Sometimes it's the classroom, sometimes it's the weather, either way, be ready.  I like to use the ultra shea instead of the other lotions from Bath and Body Works; it's richer and still smells great.
  29. Hand Sanitizer--Because even before COVID-19, there were germs everywhere at a universities
  30. Snacks--I always bring them from home; it's cheaper.  I keep mostly healthy snacks, but I'll also keep a candy bar or some minis to help boost energy quickly.
  31. Wallet--I pull this out of my purse every morning and stick it into my backpack.  One semester, I didn't actually have a purse, but just had a little coin and card wallet I would stick in my pocket when I went to the store because I always had my backpack with me.
  32. Face Mask--I bought this one just in time for classes.  I have several others to rotate, but when I saw this collegiate one, I had to have it!  Etsy is a great place to find one for your university if you can't find it on Amazon.
It seems like a lot, and alright, it is, but I have what I need to get on the Dean's List.  If you notice, I don't have any text books in my back pack.  Classes start in just short of a month and my freshman year of university, back in 2006, taught me to wait to buy my books for class.  I've had several professors give us PDF files or not even use the book.

I also have other school supplies which remain at home, but that will be another post, which once made, I will link here.

Good luck this year everyone.  We're all going to need it!
See y'all soon!
-Ms Curly Texan

*Tip: Don't buy your books until you have attend your class

*Tip: Don't buy your books from the university bookstore.  Go to Amazon or free websites for your books.

Thursday, July 23, 2020

At the Dog Park: Socializing Your New Puppy...Even During 2020

Welcome and thank y'all for being here!

(I live in Texas, in the US, so some of this post may not be applicable in other countries.  I don't know the laws about dogs in most states, let alone other countries, but I hope you enjoy this post nonetheless.)

It was been two weeks and two days today, since we brought home our new pug puppy, Willow.

We also have a full grown husky named Odin.
We got him about a year and a half ago; a rescue, rejected and rejected, basically for being a typical husky.  But today I'm talking about puppy socialization.  Taking in an adult dog will be another day.

I am not an expert on dogs or puppies, but I have a little experience with my own puppies and I have two kids.
(Sometimes the same rules apply for children and puppies.)

Socialization is crucial for a well rounded dog.  If you are getting a dog at the puppy stage, socialization is important for their development.  If a puppy is well socialized with other dogs, of different sizes, and a variety of people, your puppy can grow to be the type of dog that accepts new comers into the home and will not be aggressive towards other dogs when an adult.
This of course, is not guaranteed even if you socialize it often.  Your puppy's personality is a factor that will be a determinant in what dog it will grow into.  Breed can also be a factor for personality.  Small breeds often have a domineering attitude,
usual due to having to "prove" themselves for self-preservation.

First a little background on my experience with puppies.  When I was a child, we had outdoor dogs all the time and we had them all from being a puppy. 
 Two of our dogs went to live with my uncle on his ranch when they became around a year old; I was around eight.  I cannot remember how old I was when my brother and I shouted at my parents to stop and see the chow-lab mix puppies someone was selling at the mall parking lot.  We picked a white one and named him Snowball.
He was also an outdoor dog.  All our pets were outdoor pets because of my mom; she didn't want pets inside the house.
My twelfth birthday was closing in and I wanted a toy poodle.  I had three aunts with poodles and I wanted one of my own.  My parents gave in and my mom accepted having a pet inside the house.  We found a toy-miniature poodle in a near by city and I had my very own puppy.  She was white and I named her Daphnie.
Daphnie slept in my bed with me and I took care of her myself.  This was the very first pet that was all my own.  I went through house training, loss of puppy teeth, and heat cycles with her.  This was before we had the internet in our home, so I had a book I bought about toy poodles [link], and I rented videos about puppies and poodles.
  I learned how to speak to her and how to love her without hurting her.  Again, she was my very own first puppy.  I took care of her until I got married and moved out with my husband.  Sadly, we had to leave her at my parents' home because our apartment didn't allow pets.  My oldest daughter remembers her still.  Daphnie lived to almost be fifteen years old.

Now, I mentioned children and puppies having similar rules and it's true.  If you have children, or have sat for children, think of the rules you give them, and they are very similar to rules you give to your puppy.  Most of what is listed on the info-graph is similar to how you socialize a small child.  

During this time where some states have a mandate to wear a mask at all public spaces, and parks are shutting down again, or still are, you can still find places to socialize your puppy.
I hope this helps you to know how to socialize your puppies, even during these trying times.

Thanks for visiting!  See y'all soon!
-Ms Curly Texan

Thursday, July 16, 2020

Hello Again!

It's been a long time, hasn't it?
 I tried several times to create a format for myself to be consistent with my posts and I believe I found the correct format now.

January 1, 2020 was the start of the new youth program for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.  Instead of the young women, and young men, having goals given to them, they now have to create their own goals for themselves.
The Personal Development program focus on four fields to create goals in; Spiritual, Social, Physical, and Intellectual.  These four fields came from the scripture Luke 2:52;
"Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man."
There is a pattern for growth while creating and working through goals in each of these fields; Discover, Plan, Act, and Reflect.  I plan to use all this to help me post on this blog.  This blog is to help myself and others; that has always been my idea behind starting this.

Examples to look forward to are self-care nights, family time, youth church activities, what's in my university backpack, and parks in Texas.  I look forward to this!

Thanks and love y'all!  See y'all soon!

Saturday, June 16, 2018

Personal Progress as an Adult Young Women

As of March 1, 2018, I decided to redo my Personal Progress, as an adult.



Sometimes you have to adjust a few value experiences as an adult.
An example: Good Works Value Experience #2; "Service is an essential principle of family living.  Help plan your family's menus, obtain the food, and prepare part of the meals for two weeks.  During that time help your family gather to share mealtimes.  Report to your class what you have learned."

I adjusted it to read: "Help your kids help plan your family's menu, help them find food in stores, and help them prepare part of the meals for two weeks."

I am an adult, wife, and mother, so I've planned meals every week for years.  When I was a Young Women, I used my usual everyday things I did to sign off on values, and as a youth that's not so bad because you want to build on the good habits you have, build new good ones, and have them all continue with you into adulthood as you begin to start your own family.  As an adult doing Personal Progress over, I decided to do what I don't usually do.  I needed this to be a challenge for me, otherwise I would make no progress.  Many things I do are habits I learned because Personal Progress forced me to ask questions and to make menus, so I wanted Personal Progress to do the same again; teach me new things and form new and better habits that will continue in my adulthood.

Teaching my children is almost everything I need to do in my life right now.
I am an example to them daily, but I also need to take time to teach them how to take care of themselves and each other.  Teaching kids about meal preparation and making is a great way to help them know how to take care of themselves in the future.  Luckily, my kids are still very young, so I still have several years to teach them these things.

In this particular value experience, it says to report to your class what you have learned.  Now, if you are not a leader in Young Women, this could possibly be awkward to bring up in Relief Society, but remember, part of Personal Progress is also a way for you to expand your testimony.  A great way to share your testimony with others is by including them in your value experiences.

Many value experiences, if not all of them, tell you to discuss with a parent or leader, and though I live in very close proximity to my mama, I have passed that stage in my life where I involve my parents in every aspect of my life.  My husband takes that role now.  He is whom I confined in and discuss my value experiences with.  If you don't have a husband, and you feel a little nervous about talking to all of Relief Society at an activity, talk to your home teacher, or minister-er; I'm not sure yet what our titles are with the changes.  They will be happy to help you.  If you don't have ones that come regularly to you, as that happens, talk to the Young Women leaders, talk with your visiting teachers, talk with the Relief Society leaders, or even talk with non-member friends--I think the point is simply that you share your feels and findings.  When you say what you have come to understand out loud, that often confirms it, solidifies it, and helps you to know that you truly believe and know it.

The Faith in God for Girls program helps to prepare you for Personal Progress, which helps you build habits that will help you be a woman whom has a relationship with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and lead you to them by your temple ordinances, good works, faith, and endurance.
Personal Progress helps you to build the habits of scripture study, personal prayer, pondering, menu planning, budget setting, and the expansion of your talents.  All these are essential to you reaching your potential as a daughter of Heavenly Father, no matter your age.

Whether you are a Beehive, a sophomore in university, a forty year old mama, or an eighty year old great-grandma, Personal Progress will help you draw closer to Heavenly Father, have a greater appreciation of Jesus Christ's atonement, and help you understand your callings in your life.
I testify of these things in the name of Jesus Christ for I have experienced this myself.
Love y'all.

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Completing the Knowledge Value in 10 Days


Our school district recently finished their Spring Break, and I was determined to complete a whole value during it.
I've just recently started redoing my Personal Progress at age twenty-nine.  Even though I completed my Personal Progress as a teen, I had never been given my Young Women Medallion.  Now it will cost me $50 or more online to find the medallion I should've received in my youth.  I'm determined to get this current medallion and wear it since I never had the chance as a youth.
"Give me a young woman...who has earned her Young Women Recognition award and wears it with pride...and I will give you a young woman who will perform miracles for the Lord now and throughout eternity."  -Ezra Taft Benson.
I also would like the one they had when I was a Beehive.  I love the image of the angelic Young Women, but that's another story.

Since I gave myself only nine days to complete a whole value, I looked for a specific kind.  Several Value Experiences require you take two to three weeks to complete, requiring you to have repetition to create a good habit,
but Knowledge is one that does not.
I chose Knowledge.

I read the scriptures, wrote in my journal, and talked with my husband about each Value Experience.  Since I am married, I discuss everything with my husband and have him sign off on the experiences for me; he is also a priesthood holder.

It was Friday morning, the last day of school for Evelyn before Spring Break, and I decided I would complete a value, a whole value, before Spring Break would be over, Sunday night the following week.  I got straight to it!

I reviewed my required Knowledge Value Experiences and decided to start with #2.  I read Matthew 25:14-30 and, in my journal, listed my talents, then made a second list of talents I wish to gain.  Most of them were things I wanted to stop doing.  I wrote a journal entry about one off the list of talents I wish to gain, why I picked that one, and my plan to reach that goal.

Next, I did Knowledge Value Experience #1.  I read the scriptures, wrote my thoughts in my journal, and talked with Tom about it all.  My favorite part?  "And with all thy getting get understanding."  Proverbs 4:7.  To me it just sounds like, Don't only gain knowledge, but gain also the way it is applied, how it affects others, how it affects you, and how it changes you and others.

Next was Knowledge Value Experience #3 and by this time, Evelyn would be getting out of school in an hour.  By guesses, #1 and #2 took about two and a half hours to complete.  I know Young Women have so much of their time taken by school and extra curriculars, but when you have a long holiday, like Spring Break, you can get so much done!  If you are taking a trip, you can do your reading and journal writing in the car or on the plane.

Knowledge Value Experience #3 requires you go to a museum, exhibit, or performance that involves dance, music, speech, or drama, and use the Thirteenth Article of Faith to observe.  If you learned the Articles of Faith by song, I suggest that is the way to recite it.  I sung it to Tom.  He chortled when I finished.
We have a university in town where I went to, but I couldn't find a clear schedule of art exhibits online, so I went to see if they had a schedule of senior exhibits coming up in the Art Department.  The office was closed, but then I saw the gallery open.  Both doors were open on each end, and at the opposite door from me was a podium with a guest book.  I signed in and decided to look around.
Having had a minor in art when I attended this university, this room was very familiar to me, as well as the whole building.  The professor in the painting class across the way was one I had myself.
I studied the art; minimalistic paintings of acrylic on canvas.
When it came to writing my observation, I decided to use the computer to type it out.  When I type, I am able to get out my thoughts much faster.  I talked about the art I saw and about the last time I was at an exhibit in the same gallery.  I bought a piece of work then and I still have it.  Art is important to expression.  You can convey so much by colors and painted eyes, all you have to do is take a moment to be still and look at those praiseworthy things.
If you have a community college or university near by, this value experience can be simple; you need to know when and where to show up.  Take your journal with you for you to freshly make your observations.

Next would be Knowledge Additional Value Experience #5.  My interest is writing, more specifically, becoming respectively published.  I have attended events and talked with my cousin's wife, whom has been published, so I typed out my thoughts and my notes from lectures on how to be published.  It was fastest to type and paste into my journal.

Knowledge Additional Value Experience #4, I had recently done when I spoke in Sacrament meeting with Tom.  We were the only speakers, so easily my talk was over five minutes.

For my final value experience to complete, I chose Knowledge Additional Value Experience #7.  I have done several years of Young Women Camp, and last year I did a Girl Scout Camp Leader Training, so I know lots of camping things.  I discussed with Tom how I wanted to print out a list of what food we have in our 72 hour kits and update our Family Emergency Binder.  After doing so, my final Knowledge Value Experience was complete!  This one took a bit of time to go through everyones' folders and important documents in our Family Emergency Binder.  If your family doesn't have one, this would be the perfect opportunity to put one together.  Get a 1.5 inch binder, pictures of each family member, pocket folders without brads for each member of the family, and dividers.  List important dates like birthdays and anniversaries, make a list of family goals for the year, add a section where notes from family councils can be kept, and in each family member folder, have a picture, copy of birth certificate, certified ID, copy of social security card, list of medical conditions and medications, and shot records.  Family Emergency Binders can also include budget plans, funeral arrangements, and chore lists for each member of the family.  It's a binder you would want to do with your parents as a youth, and a binder you would want to do with your spouse if you have one.

It was evening when I completed all of my Knowledge Value Experiences.

It can be done!  Take time to read your scriptures and sing the Thirteenth Article of Faith, and you can get your Knowledge Value Experiences done in a couple of days.  Your journal entries don't have to be long or amazing epiphanies you have, they just need to be honest and based on your experiences.  You may have to wait for an event to come up for Value Experience #3, but if you make the effort to find something, I'm sure you will succeed.

For my Knowledge Value Project, I based it on Knowledge Additional Value Experience #5; "Learn about an area of work or service that interests you."

Going back to my journal entry on Experience #5, I decided if I were ever to finish my manuscript, I would need to write every day for a set amount of time without interruption.  Goodness!  No interruptions and two children under eight?!  How could I possible do so?  That is where the support of my husband and family members came into play.  When doing value experiences and projects, don't hesitate in asking for help from your family, both at home and in your ward/branch.  Part of learning how to do all these experiences is learning how to work with others and ask for their help.

I made a chart to keep myself on schedule, as well as keep track of time.

As you may notice, on Sundays, I did not schedule myself to write my manuscript but only do value experiences.  This was in an effort to keep the Sabbath holy.
Sunday does not mean no work, but holy work.

The value experiences I chose here did not require a certain time to complete, so I would be able do several during a Sunday.  Reading was not included in my time, only my journal writing.  Writing is writing, no matter which way it is.

If you also notice, I did not include writing on my blog.  As I just said, writing is writing, but for the purpose of my Knowledge Value Project, I did not count blog writing as an advancement in being published.  Though, in the future, that may not be the case; we have all seen bloggers get published, but as for my Knowledge Value Project, I had decided not to have it included.  Now that I have completed my Knowledge Value, I will include blog writing in my endeavors of pursuing my great interest.

You can see how I put down my time.  When I sat down to write, I used the stopwatch on my phone, then added the time together at the end of the day.  There was only one day I needed to do that, though.

I hadn't mentioned before, but on the days I only wrote my manuscript, it was to be consecutive time. It was a little difficult, especially since I did my work while still at home.  It always happened at night, when we were all going to bed.  I stayed up, much as I do to write anything, and completed my hour and fifteen minutes.

I had reached my 10 hours for my project a couple of days before I had scheduled myself to finish, and sure, I could have said I reached my hours and stopped, but then it wouldn't have been a truly completed project.  I set myself to work on my writing until Sunday, March 18th, and that is just what I did.  The project isn't about reaching ten hours of work but about reaching a better you.

There was a night I almost didn't write at all, but I still did it.  You can see there was a night I wrote for only fifteen minutes.  That was the night I feel asleep four times as I tried to write; note, that was waking up four times in fifteen minutes to try to write again.

Sometimes, you need to change things to fit the situation, but don't stray from the point of your project.  The point of this project, for me, was to become better at always working on my manuscript to get it completed.  I may write often, but if that effort isn't going in to completing my work, then it is a waste of energy on my part.

Even though I had trouble at times, getting my story going, I was relieved after every allotted time.  I even had to stop myself from continuing much of the time; lost track of time.  It is a love of mine after all.

I hope I've been helpful to those trying to do Personal Progress.
How have y'all been doing your Personal Progress?
Have tips for a veteran like me?
Let me know in the comments!

Friday, March 16, 2018

What I Took for Girl Scout Camp Training


When I prepared for Girl Scout Camp Training, I bought myself some waterproof hiking boots.
Found at Academy.com then bought in store, all the reviews told me they were comfortable right out of the box, and that was very important since I bought them quite last minute.
The reviews were right.  They were comfortable, and though I didn't test them, it did keep my feet dry in the short wet grass.

What I Took for GS Camp Training 
in the South Texas Fall

Mexican blanket
      for cold nights, you want extra layers

Hiking backpack
      when selecting a backpack, be sure you have a comfortable waistband, outside
      pockets, and the straps on the bottom for your pad or blanket

Waterproof hiking boots
      waterproof is crucial, as well as them being light in weight

Duct tape
     you can repair so many things with it

Bandana
     wrap it around your wrist for easy access and can also be used to wipe off
     sweat

Mess kit
     this ones clear why you need it, I prefer metal because you can heat it over the
     fire

Mesh bag/dunk bag
     for cleaning your mess kit, be sure it has a drawstring--in addition to the dunk
     bag, you could take galvanized buckets to wash dishes, we didn't need to since
     that was provided at the training

Waterproof bag
     this is precaution for an extra pair of clothes

Long socks
      your boots will be over your ankle, so should your socks, I bought baseball
      socks

Long pants
     even if it is hot, you should wear long pants to protect your legs

Long sleeved tops
     think thin for layering

Short sleeved tops
     think, again, thin for layering

Light jacket
     layering

Unders
     obviously, and bring only exactly how many days you will be there, more
     weight is more weight

Sport bras (instead of regular bras)
     you will be more comfortable and you won't muck up your good stuff

Bag for laundry
     you don't want to mix your dank clothes with your clean clothes--I used a large
     wet bag

Waterproof phone case/sack
     be prepared incase it rains

Cap/sun hat
     nothing fancy and something you don't mind getting sweat on

Gloves
     if it's cold, you'll want some with touchscreen ability

Work gloves
     you'll want these when working with wood and fire

Infinity scarf
     this can come in handy for many things; wrap, sling, or to keep warm

Hydration belt/bladder backpack/cinch bag
     if you are planning for Girl Scout camping, you need to keep paperwork with
     you and sometimes medications, and you need to stay hydrated, these can solve
     both your problems

Snacks
     if you are hiking, don't take these, but if this is for training, you'll want snacks,
     especially if you're like me with an iron deficiency

Windproof matches
     it'll make it easier to light the fire if they want you to use matches

Wind resistant long lighter
     if they don't care, this is better than matches

Sleeping bag/comforter and sheets
     this one is clear why

First aid kit
     bandages, wraps, hydrogen peroxide, thermometer, fever reducer, pain reliever,
     Benadryl--just your basics

Pocket knife
     we learned knife safety, if you are going for training, you will too, and if you
     are just camping, you should always have a knife with you

If You Are in Tents

Blow up mattress
     I prefere the double hight, they are much easier to get in and out of

Heavy duty tarp
     you will want one for under your tent, take two if you will be camping in rocky
     soil

Tent
     if you are supposed to sleep in tents, clearly, you would need one


Don't forget your prescribed medications!


 When doing Girl Scout Camp Training, listen, learn, and have a lot of fun!
I know I did!

Tell me if I left anything out.
What did y'all take on y'alls camp training days?

Saturday, March 10, 2018

Girl Scout Camp Training

(I just saw that I hadn't posted this and I am so sorry!  It's been ready to go for months, as I did this Camp Training late last Fall, and I can't believe it's not out there for y'all to laugh about.  I love camping!  My co-leader on the other hand...)


As a teen, I camped every summer with our church youth organization; Young Women.  I always loved it.
When I became a mother, I wasn't sure if I still would, until we took this trip, and I know now that I like camping no matter with children or not.

Just recently, I went on a Girl Scout Camp Training weekend.  There wasn't much information, before hand, about what we were to do, so I wasn't sure how "campy" it was all going to be.  All I did know, was we were to be sleeping in cabins.

I went with one other leader from our troop.  She's not outdoorsy, so I feared a little for her.  When I packed, the only thing I bought were hiking boots, she bought everything.  Even a new comforter, just for camping.  It was fun though.
We started with learning about fires and making fire starters.
These are pieces of candle sticks wrapped in wax paper.

We then went out and made our own little fires.
I was the only one to get mine on the first try.
I used my fire starter.
"That's cheating!" they said.
I said, "Why did we make fire starters if we weren't going to use them?"

My other troop leader, posing, was in the first team to start the fire for lunch.
I truly was proud of how well she did.  The type to refuse to not wear make up and perfume on a camping trip, she did very well.

I was a chef for lunch.
We made foil dinners for lunch.

Our dessert cooking in a dutch oven.

The extra potatoes, onions, and carrots.

It was a beef patty with potatoes, onions, and carrots.
It was good!

Our ready dessert.
An apple spice cake.

My serving of apple spice cake.

I forgot to take pictures of where we slept.  It was very nice.  I much looked more like a place you'd rent to hunt than a place for Girl Scout camping.

The next morning was cold and I didn't have a beanie.
I did, though, bring my black infinity scarf.
I wrapped it around my head three times; it kept my ears warm and hair back as we make breakfast.

She was a cook this time.
We had eggs, bacon, and tortillas.

Next, was knots.

Tents!
We split into two teams and each put up a two man tent.
Our tent had two doors, which made me very intrigued.

Cooking lunch!
We had Scout Stew.

My servings.
See that mess kit?  The bowl and the plate? 
 It was my father in law's when he was in the army.

Lunch's dessert.
PEACH COBBLER!
The absolute best dessert you can make on a camping trip!
It was such a nostalgic taste.

My share.

Us with our instructors.
The woman on the furthest left is in her mid-80s.  She's been doing this a long time.  Before we all left after lunch, she told us we might be her last camp training she does, and if we were, it was a great way to go.

We had a lot of fun.
If you are a troop leader getting ready to go to camp training,
don't worry, it's not hard and it's a lot of fun.  
Wear layers to peal off as you work.
Don't try using peppermint to deter mosquitos.  It works, but nats love it dearly.

This post was just a view of the fun I had at camp.
Return next week for a quick list on what I took to Girl Scout camp training!
See y'all then!