Showing posts with label Raven. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Raven. Show all posts

Friday, May 13, 2016

My Top 5 Most Satisfying Raven's Mama Moments

As a Mother's Day Special, even though I'm late, what better way to celebrate,
than to think of what great moments I've had as a Mama.
This post is all about my favorite Mama moments with Raven,
my second born and second daughter.

When I was pregnant with Raven, before we knew she was a girl, I was hoping that Evelyn would have a sister.  I didn't pray for it, it felt selfish to me; I wanted Evelyn to have a sister because I never was able to, but Evelyn did end up with a sister.  It makes me so happy to know that they are mine, and I get to keep them forever.


When Raven's First Word Was "Evelyn"
This is not an exaggeration.  Raven's first word was "Evelyn."  We know for sure that is exactly what she was saying, because she was watching the hall, looking down to sister's room, and calling her name.  Evelyn was in her room playing, Raven could hear her, and she called out to her.  Two out of two of my kid's have not said Mama first.  I'll take it.

When Raven First Kicked the Soccer Ball
Evelyn loves soccer, so the three of us were outside to kick the ball around, and I took Raven's leg, a few times, and had her kick the ball.  She seemed a little afraid to try herself, but she was amazed at what she was doing.  The next day, inside, she kicked the ball.  A real kick.  She was 19 months and she kicked a soccer ball.  Raven even tried to use her toe to pull back the ball from her "opponent."  She is surprisingly skilled at many things.

When She Forces Me to Hug and Kiss Her
That does sound strange, but at the moment, she is sleeping in our bed, and she usually falls asleep in my arms.  Sometimes,  she will force me to keep both arms tightly around her.  I'm not even allowed to scratch my nose.  Raven is very insistent sometimes.  This feels extra special to me, because, when Evelyn was little, I was least preferred, all the time.  With Raven, I'm usually the preferred one.  It's nice.  She also will grab my face and force me to kiss her cheeks.  I, of course, attack her with kisses, but sometimes, I can't breath with her squishy cheeks.

When Raven Insists She Clean
Raven loves to clean.  I will give her a paper towel when she is upset and tell her she gets to clean, and she rushes off to wipe things down.  This is actually something both girls do/did, and they inherited this trait from me.  You may have read in previous posts, when I was younger, much younger, my older cousins would lead me to their rooms, when I'd visit, so I would clean it.  Growing up, when I would get board, I'd clean, reorganize, and rearrange.  It's a good feeling to see your kid pick up your good habits.

The Way Raven Hugs and Kisses Her Babies
She pulls them in so tightly and kisses them as if they are the first and only dolls she has ever received.  This is after playing with it, too.  Raven will do this to all doll babies and stuffed animals, well, almost anything she can hold, she will do this to.  She attacks food in much the same manner.


Raven's list was a little harder to make since she hasn't been here that long, she's not even two yet, but there are still amazing moments I had to move around to find the perfect ones.

Happy Mother's Day!


(Check out EVELYN'S MAMA MOMENTS!)

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

My Baby Shower

On May 24, 2014, I had my baby shower!
I had been waiting for it for a long time.  Once you have the shower it means you are almost there to the end!  I am ready for it too!  I want to hold my new baby girl!  I also know what else we need to get.  Some crib sheets, Evelyn is in a toddler bed so she still uses the same size sheets so we need some just for raven. We also needed new baby towels, newborn socks (we have the bigger baby sizes but not newborn), new Boppy cover (I took Evelyn's and I'm going to use it in a quilt later), and also nipple cream.  Going to need that!  My nursing bras are ordered online already but I don't know if they will make it in time. Uh oh!  I'm due June 17 but already more than 1.5 cm dilated and my bras won't even ship until the first week of June.  I don't want to wait any longer...for either. 

Back to the baby shower.  I wanted to use the same colors we are using in the girls' room which are bright pink, yellow, aqua and bright green.  We also had purple and orange at the party.
My mother in law made the balloon flowers and the puffy tissue balls.  I picked out streamers. I love adding streamers!  Adds color for almost no cost!

Sign in table.  If you get HGTV Magazine, you might recognize the wreath. I had wanted to try out making one so I did and it was the door prize for the shower. Thought it was extra cute since the door prize was a prize made for a door!  That may only be cute to a very pregnant woman with mommy brain. 

Just like for Evelyn, the baby shower guest sign in was a page from Raven's scrapbook.  

Food was provided by family and friends!  My mom found that food daisy dish at Steel's. You can rearrange the petals to be any which way!

Of course my mom made my cake.  When she makes cake for baby showers (for the family only really), she likes to use toys that the baby can use after being born.   It's a cute tradition that she didn't intend on doing. 
My mom often makes cupcakes special for the kids at such parties.  

Evelyn also was surprised with a Big Sister cake!  It was a large cupcake topped with very blue frosting!  In this picture my mom is helping Evelyn cut her Big Sister cake.  The other little girl is my cousin's daughter.  She wanted to be in all the pictures, she's hammy that way!  Evelyn usually only is when she has professional pictures done.  I think it makes her feel extra special!

We also had games that my cousin did but I forgot to take pictures while doing them.  I am 14 tissues squares round at my biggest part, or should I say Raven's biggest part.  We had the baby poop game where you guess what candy is in which diaper, jelly bean guess, gumdrop guess, baby food guess and candy guess story.  That is when the name of a candy fills in pieces of the story. Example: "When Erica first met Tom she though he was such a..."
"Hunk!" and the person wins a Hunk bar!
I was a bit mean with a joke and said, "Chunky!"  That was the only candy I could think of the whole game!  Mommy brain is really getting me right now. All the blood is going to Raven to help her finish baking!

I had such a fun time!  Thank you my family for making it so wonderful!