Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Baby Showers


For the past four baby showers and 1st birthdays, I made things; three blankets and one carseat canopy.

Most recent was a blanket for a woman having her third child, a boy. 
Best picture I ended up getting

I went to high school with her and her husband.  We were all in JROTC together and me and April were also in band/marching band together.  They are a year or so younger than me.  Tom works with the husband also.  Tom had forgotten to tell me that they put up the baby shower invite at the station.  Luckily, I saw them at Wal-Mart the day before the shower.
"Hey!  You never said if you were coming to the baby shower or not," April said.
"What baby shower?" 
Yup.  That's how I found out.  So Evelyn and I went to see if there was any fabric/pattern I would like to use for a blanket.  Evelyn picked out a robot print.  I wanted to use orange fleece (April's favorite color) but gold was the closest I could get to it.  April was suprised to hear that I made it.
"You made it?  But I just told you about all this last night..."
"Yeah, I made it last night."
If you make blankets, to make a baby blanket, you know it doesn't take long.  I have been sewing since I was 12.  For Christmas I asked for a sewing machine, I still have it too!  So making the blanket wasn't a long process, 'specially since I have been making a lot lately.  I have fun with it too!
My cousin just had her third child, a little girl.  My aunt held a baby shower for her about a week and a half before she delievered.  I wanted to try to make a carseat canopy, so that's what I made her.
Cotton on one side.

Minky on the other.

Reversible makes it possible to add toys inside for the baby!
I made it reversible to make it more interesting and have a place for the toys.  I wanted to use white Minky for sure.  My cousins favorite colors are pink and black so that was a given too.  Turns out that they bought new covers for the carseat that were pink and black and she had wanted to also get a canopy to go with it so she got very excited about it.
Before that, my oldest cousin's youngest turned one.  It was a Toy Story themed birthday party.  I made a blanket.  I stitched a star in the center.
Not the best blanket I've made.  The fabric I used for the back was thick, fluffy and moved a lot.  I tried very hard to make it work.  It think that it turned out nicely but it was harder to work with.
The first blanket from the four recent sewing gifts was for my second oldest cousin's youngest boy at his 1st birthday party.
This blanket took so long.  I put batting between two cotton fabrics.  I kept doing it wrong.  Over and over and over again.  About the fourth time is when I got it right.  It was worth it.  It turned out better than I expected.  I stitched boarders to keep the fabric from moving.  The very middle square had a little extra stitching.  You can see it a bit in the picture.
I love to sew!  Have any tips from your experiences?  Please tell me about them!  I can use guidence to better my abilities.  I'm not that good.  Average I'd say, even though I've been sewing for so long.  I would like to get better.  Help me in anything sewing, please!
Thank you blogging world!


Summer Vacation

A tradition that my husband's family have started a couple years ago was that we would visit each other every other year.  My husband has two (of three) brothers in Tacoma, Washington and his two sisters live in Texas, one in Houston and one down the street from us with my mother in law there and across the street from them.  This summer was their turn to come down to see us.  Sadly only one brother and his daughter were able to make it and not also the other with his wife or little girl Madi.  Last year, she and Evelyn had so much fun together.  They are a year and a half apart so Evelyn was able to have a lot of fun with her.
We spent two days at the beach.  When the Washintonian Brothers come, they say, "I can spend the whole week at the beach."  So we try to spend at least two days there.  I grew up in this area and my sister in law and her family have lived here for over 10 years so the beach is something we always have, as well as the heat and sun.  So the Texans usually limit it to two days, especially for the little kids.  We always have fun though, using bodyboards and making mountains of sand.
Heading to the water!
We spent three days in San Antonio at a time share.  Its a time share only hotel and very nice, felt like a home and not a hotel.  We had a four bedroom, three bath suite. 
The great room.  Looked bigger in person.  Love the beams!
Looking at everything all I could think is, "If only our house looked this put together."  Everything matched so well.  Everthing!  The table was an 8-12 seater.  I want a table that big!  We have a big family, Tom's side sounds big huh?  His is the small side.  It's only me and my brother but all of my mother's sisters and brother are here and most of all their kids and grandkids which means that we see them regularly.  I would love to have a larger table like that.  Then we could have stuff at our house too!  I'm going off track though...
The first day that we got to San Antonio, we went to Six Flags Fiesta Texas.
Evelyn with two of her cousins.
Evelyn absolutely loved it!  We bought a cup from there and now when she sees it she tells us that she wants to back there.  So maybe we will go again next year with my parents or wait for Stevy (my brother) to get back and take a long weekend.
We also went down the Riverwalk.
Evelyn and Tom
We had a fun time with the family.  Sometimes family can make you frustrated or annoyed but family is what completes you, makes you whole.  Family is what can make you smile.  Family is what can bring you back from even your darkest times.  Family is a big melting pot of personalities, love, excitement and especially a little craziness.  How else could you still go on loving each other?

Examples of craziness! 
Love you my family and I'm constantly looking foward to the memories we will make together!

Evelyn's Mickey Mouse Clubhouse 3rd Birthday

This July, Evelyn turned three years old.  I always start her birthday plans in January.  I am forgetful so to keep myself from forgetting anything needed for a smoothly flowing child's birthday party, I start the plans six months ahead.  So in January, I was planning to do a Disney Cars themed birthday party since it is one of Evelyn's favorite movies.  I had been finding things all over Etsy and getting ideas from different sites online since Thanksgiving last year or so and January comes and Evelyn loves Mickey Mouse Clubhouse so much.  I had to change it.  I couldn't keep her from having a Clubhouse birthday party.
So Evelyn's 3rd birthday party was Mickey Mouse Clubhouse!

To start the party plans, I needed to plan Evelyn's outfit.  I asked her if she wanted to dress up as Minnie and she told me, "No, I wanna be Mickey Mouse!" and threw up her arms with excitment.  So I asked her again a few days later, to be sure that's what she wanted and she said the same thing.  Evelyn doesn't care about being a boy charcter as long as she has fun being that character.

The Outfit



I planned on making her outfit simple.  I used red shorts (borrowed from my nephew's pajamas) and cut two large circles out of white felt and sewed them on making two verticle stripes.  She wore a black shortsleeve shirt, plastic Mickey ears and white gloves.  In a neighboring town (5 minutes away), there is a music store that carries marching gloves in both black and white for middle school to university aged marchers.  I bought a white pair and cut the fingers off to the edge of her fingers.  I used a black permenant marker to make the three classic trademark black lines on the back of all the gloves of Mickey and friends.  I could've stitched on the black lines but like I said, I wanted it to be simple.  I was going to sew two of the fingers together but didn't since I knew she would want to wear the gloves most of the party; eating and playing would become difficult.
I wore a red shirt with Mickey on the front.  My shirt was a last thought so I got it late.  The only place I had to find one was Wal-Mart.  They didn't have one in my size that was red, white or black.  I went to the pajama section and found one easy and right away.  Even better that its just a t-shirt made from jersey.  Can't tell its a pj shirt.  Tom already had a red polo so he was covered.  That was one reason why I forgot that I needed a shirt.  Evelyn had her outfit and Tom had his shirt and I went out of my mind...in a sort.


The Place


Evelyn's first birthday party was at my parents, we didn't have the floor in our house finished so we had it there.  A water party.  Her second birthday party was at our house and was also a water party.  This year's birthday party was at a park in our little Texas town.  It's at the very edge of town so the wind blows nicely through and there is a large open crop field next to it so it's easy to see the sun setting making it even more lovely.  There is another park in town that houses all the baseball fields but it has very old equipment.  The park we had the party at is almost all new equipment with a new walking path that little kids ride their bikes on and a pavilion that was built earlier this year in addition to one that is still in very good condition.  This park is usually the one we visit so we decided to have the party there.  We ended up arriving ten minutes before the party started with nothing set up.  We were lucky though that we were able to get the new pavilion which is also closer to the play area.  The kids played before the games and while we still set up.  The weather was nice for being South Texas; in the mid 90s or so with good wind.  At the end of the party a storm went around our town so it became very cool for mid July in Texas.  I think we picked a good spot.



Games


game 1)   I wanted to make a Toodles.  I had to make Toodles!



inside

outside


I bought a tri-folding poster (what children usually use for Science Fairs) and used construction paper to make Toodles.  I traced a large serving bowl for the face and a top from a smaller storage bowl for the ears.  Dinner plates could work too but we have square plates so I had to find something else.  I put Mickey Mouse Clubhouse gift wrapping paper on the outside so it didn't look so plain and incomplete.
I used Toodles to play an on going game that lasted through most of the party.  Just like Toodles in the show, our Toodles would help us with the party.  Our Mouseka tools were Mickey Mouse ears, a number 3 candle, a pinata stick and the mystery Mouseka tool (which was a bag of Minnie bows).  I used a staple gun to staple it to a light pole.
The children at our party ranged from ages 2-10 with one 1 year old.  The ten year olds are twins that didn't participate in the games, just played at the park and hit the pinata which was what we expected them to do at a party of a three year old.  All the others knew all about Mickey's Clubhouse so it was easy to play this game.  It started with the children gathering around the pole with a "closed" Toodles, then I welcoming them to the party and told them that we were going to start the games.
"Does everyone have their Mickey Mouse ears?"
"Evelyn doesn't!" my nephew shouted.
"Oh no!  We need a Mouseka tool to help us!  Everyone say 'Oh, Toodles!'" I instucted.
"OH TOODLES!" they all shouted.
I opened Toodles and the game began.  We continued it; a bag of Minnie's bows for a game (see game 4), the candle for the cake (which we couldn't lite because of the wind) and the pinata stick for the pinata.
game 2)   My mom found an inflatable bean bag toss game that was of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse.  It was unexpect and was pretty much at the last minute but I was glad she found it.  It was awesome for the kids!
(We hooked it on a rebar that supported a tree so it would stay in one place)
game 3)   I wanted to play a fishing game.  Evelyn likes fishing, I think it reminds her of my brother who is half way through his two year mission in Mexico right now.  So for the next game I made fish out of construction paper and magnets and put them in a baby pool.
(I put large rocks inside to keep it from flying away)
"Uh oh!  With all the noise from the birthday party we woke up Pete!  And Pete gets grumpy if he doesn't get his nap!  We need to go to Mickey pond and catch him some fish to make him happy."
The children fished in "Mickey Pond" and all recieved an extra large lollie pop when they caught a fish, which they all did, we made sure of course.  They had fun fishing!
game 4)   I wanted to do a "Pin the Bow on Minnie" game but I couldn't find anything online that I could buy from a store except Etsy but even then it wasn't what I wanted.  So I made one myself!
(All these pictures were taken after the party so they are a little mess now as you can see)
I got a picture off Google Images, enlarged it and printed it up in quaters and used it as a templet.  I used black construction paper and a red marker for Minnie's tongue.  I cut out different colored bows and each child had a different color.  For this game we needed to call for Toodles.  We picked our Mystery Mouseka Tool and recieved a bag full of Minnie's bows.  Evelyn did the best.  She didn't have her eyes covered though.
A storm was forcasted to come in, which we didn't know about until we saw it coming, so we rushed after the games.  We called Toodles for the candle and cut the cake.
We called Toodles again and then hit the pinata.
The Goody Bags
My cousin made the goody bags.  I picked out the picture and wording and she made the bags.  We put mini composition books, a mini skateboard of Mickey's Clubhouse, Mickey crayons, mini flutes and I think one other thing that I can't remember right now.
The Pinata
My cousin, Bob, wanted to buy Evelyn her pinata and Evelyn had said, from the first day that we told her she would have a Mickey Mouse Clubhouse birthday party, that she wanted a Goofy pinata.  If you are unfamiliar with pinatas, it is a, usually, large character from a children's movie or show made of paper mache.  It is filled with candy and sometimes small toys.  You tie it up on a tree so that you can pull the pinata up and down.  The children beat the pinata until all the candy falls out.  It's a lot of fun!
The children weren't able to break it on their own.  I had to break it.  That's what a Mommy must do.  Wink, wink!
Rules that my parents made when we were kids was that every child would get three hits and no one could run to get candy until the child hitting has done all three hits, and the child is to drop the stick if kids run to get candy.  We have a marked off area too that we tell the children not to cross.  This is one thing I see children obey better than about anything else you tell them.  I think it's for the candy.  Kids love to hit things and get candy.  The only time it could ever possibly be allowed.  Evelyn had gotten very good at hitting a pinata, tough like Mama!  She is ready for t-ball next year.
(Pictures of Evelyn with her pinata coming soon!)
Decorations
While looking for ideas for the party online, I saw that one mother used fluffy, pointy paper decorating balls in black and I thought, "I can do that with regular paper lanterns and add black ears to make Mickey heads and red paper lanterns and add white paper dots to make Mickey pants."
I hung them with fishing line.  I underestimated the amount I needed so only one side of the pavilion had them.
I also made signs that I put next to the bag of Mickey Mouse Ears and signs next to the food that was hot dogs.
(Pictures soon to come of the decorations)
It was a long day but it went very well.  I enjoyed myself and I think everyone else did too!  Time to start preping for Evelyn's Fourth Birthday Party!  Thinking Jake and the Neverland Pirates or Doc McStuffins...hmm...or maybe something not even out yet!  She does love anything of super heros.  Maybe it can be a super hero party and as a "goody bag" they would get a cape instead?  Sounds fun already!  Yay for childrens birthday parties!

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Period Math, Conception and Preparation


My husband and I have will just be starting four months of trying to have child #2. Before this I never really knew "period math." This post may seem too personal but what is a blog if not personal? I first started menstrating at age 8, yes that is no joke, and to me, there was no reason to count. I only marked the start and end of each period so I could know how long I would have to worry about pads and tampons, and that was good enough for me.

With Evelyn, we tried one time and it worked but this time it's not as easy. I didn't realize how much work some people have to put in to getting pregnant. So I have been trying to map out my ovulation time but I found that I have a very long cycle. I knew it was long but with my cycle being an average of 36 days, and it being irregular, makes it hard to know exactly when I will ovulate. I really didn't realize how blessed we were last time.



The Way Period Math Works:


Day 1 is the first day you start bleeding. You continue that count until the day before you start to bleed again. Example: You begin to bleed on July 1st. July 1st is Day 1 of your menstration. You finish bleeding July 5th, Day 5. The next time you start to bleed, if your menstral cycle is average, you should start to bleed again on July 29th. Ovulation is about half way from start to finish, on Day 14 if you have the average womans cycle, 28 days and it is regular, meaning every cycle is exactly or with in a day of being 28 days long. The actual ovulation process lasts a max of 24 hours. That leaves a very small window to concieve. Luckily, sperm can live for 3-5 days waiting for the egg to drop. Having sex every day can lower sperm count in each ejaculation. Doing it spearingly can do the same thing. I am not an expert in any of this, but from the research I have done online for the past three months, researching almost everyday, I would say, the best thing to do to concieve, is to have sex every three days and be sure that you have sex the day before, the day of and the day after you calcutated your ovulation in case you are off on your numbers. The absolutly easiest way to make sure you know when you are ovulating is to use ovulation detection. You can get them at any drugstore and places like Target and Wal-Mart. It gets expensive if you still aren't getting pregnant for months, but if you have been trying and you're unsure about your ovulation period...I would say spend the money, it may work that first time you use them.


My example is based on the cycle of the average, young, healthy woman. It is very important to mark on a calender the days you start to bleed. If you are not trying to concieve it is still a very important thing to do. A change in your menstral cycle could be the sign of different medical conditions that you could not be aware of or that are beginning to arise. It will take several months to really know the average days of your menstral cycle and if you are young, in your teens, it will change with time giving you another reason to keep track of your cycle. As well as if you are in your 50s reaching menopause age, the cycle will lengthen and eventually end entirely. Some women are very regular and are the same every cycle. Some women, like me, are very irregular. My cycle,this year has ranged from 30 days to 41 days. That makes it very hard in my situation as we try to have another baby. I knew that my cycle was long because I started about the same time each month growing up. When I hit about age 18, my cycle got a bit shorter. I have gained a lot of weight in the past five years, and now my cycle is very irregular because of it.



Usual factors that can cause irregularity in a womans menstral cycle:
-excessive weight gain or loss -being overweight or underweight
-hormonal changes, example: hitting milestone years, 18, 25, 30 etc.
-stress
-sudden lifestyle change; becoming sexually active can throw your period off at the start or change it permenatly, starting an intense exercise program especially if you don't normally exercise or even just suddenly starting to exercise can change your cycle


If You are Trying to Concieve


When trying to concieve you need to treat yourself as if you are already pregnant.

 
1) Keep yourself as stress free as you can. I know that can be difficult having a family, home and all that implies but learning breathing exercises can help enough to ready your body for a baby
2) Take your pre-natal vitamin with DHA in it or supplement with a DHA pill
3) Do low impact exercise such as yoga or walking, keeping heathly helps keep away stress also
4) Eating healthy
5) Getting plenty of sleep
6) Don't carry very heavy things. The fetus is very sensitive and putting too much strain on you body can cause damage.
7) Do not at-home-test until you have a missed period. I say this because I get very excited and in doing so I waste home pregnancy tests and it started to get expensive because I get too excited about baby #2

Preparation is key to having a child. If you prepare your body, your baby will have a safe environment to grow. If you prepare the nursery, your baby will have a safe place that is their own or one they share with a sibling to grow in. If you prepare yourself to teach your child about what is right and what is wrong they will have a strong will to be able to grow in this world that we live in. Preparation is key.



What I need to Do to Prepare for Baby #2



1) cut majority of fatty foods
2) get Evelyn on regular sleeping schedule
3) get myself on a regular sleeping schedule
4) remember to take prenatal pill
5) have patience, remember that the best things in life are worth waiting a lifetime for!
I think just 5 goals at a time will be the best way to go. I bought a dry erase word bubble from Crate and Barrel that I had kept in the kitchen with notes on it. I put that into the bathroom with a reminder and check list of taking my prenatal and I have #5 up there too. I get too excited about the possibility of becoming pregnant again that I test too early and end up just wasting a test. They get expensive when you jump the gun too much. So I remind myself with the word bubble.


Remember, the best things in life
are worth waiting a lifetime for.